Flying Solo

Well, the Moose has been staying at Grandma's house since the beginning of the month, so I've been going solo around here.  Time has flown by.  It really doesn't feel like it's already been over three weeks.  I know a lot of moms say they couldn't let their 4 year old go away for such a long time. Hell, I know moms that can't go away for a weekend without having some sort of breakdown.  To those moms, I say this: Give it a try.  It's wonderful being able to focus on yourself for a while, and you know what? Your kid is enjoying the independence from you as well.

So what have I been doing? Basically the same thing as when the Moose is home. Work. Gym. Laundry (though less of it).  I've been able to attend more meetings for the groups I am involved with, so that is different, but really that is it. Oh, and I watch more grown up TV.  I'm sure you're probably asking why it is so wonderful then.  Well, I can shower without worrying about an audience or what kind of mess I will find when I am done.  I don't have to fight with anyone about what is for dinner.  I can go and hibernate at the gym as long as I like, or go to the pool and simply sleep in the sun.  The messes around the house are fewer and further in between. And I've only had to do dishes twice ALL MONTH LONG.  (And only because I ran out of coffee cups.)

Sure, I miss her.  But it's just so nice to have a mommycation.  So before anyone passes judgment, try it. Go away for a week, or two, or six.  It doesn't make you a bad parent, it makes you a stronger one. And it is good for the little ones, too. (I make no claims as to whether or not it is good for grandma...I'm pretty certain she is a little lighter in the bank account and sleep department after spending half the summer with my Moose.)  We've actually been doing this for a few years now, and I think it's wonderful. As a kid, I spent many a summer with my granny and g'pa.  I still have such fond memories of those times.


Now, I get to start planning all the things we will be doing when she gets home.  That is just as much fun as relaxing has been.  Gives us both something to look forward to. :)